Extra quirky and unusual things that expats notice when living in France
Here are some extra quirky and unusual things that expats notice when living in France:
1️⃣ Finances Are Private 💰
Unlike in some cultures where discussing salaries, rent, or financial struggles is common, the French tend to keep money matters private. Asking someone how much they earn or how much they paid for their house can feel intrusive.
2️⃣ No House Tours 🏡🚫
In many countries, when you visit a friend’s home for the first time, they might show you around. In France, this is not the norm—you’ll likely stay in the living room or kitchen, and wandering into other rooms uninvited is unusual.
3️⃣ Couples Staying Friends After Divorce 💔➡️😊
Divorced couples in France often remain friendly, especially when children are involved. The French approach relationships with pragmatism, and many ex-spouses continue to socialize in the same circles without awkwardness.
4️⃣ The French Still Smoke 🚬
Despite strict anti-smoking laws, smoking is still common, especially in cafés and social settings. While fewer people smoke daily, the classic image of a cigarette at a café hasn’t completely disappeared.
5️⃣ No Small Talk with Strangers 🚶♂️
While friendly chit-chat with strangers is common in some cultures, the French tend to skip small talk unless there’s a reason to engage. A simple “Bonjour” is polite, but deep conversations with strangers? Not so much.
6️⃣ No “How Are You?” in Greetings 🤔
In English-speaking countries, greetings often include “How are you?” even if the answer is just “Good, thanks”. In France, people don’t ask unless they genuinely want to know—so don’t expect it as a casual greeting!
7️⃣ Sundays Are for Family 🏡
Many shops close on Sundays, and the day is often reserved for family gatherings, long meals, and relaxation. It’s not a day for errands or shopping sprees!
8️⃣ Eating the Tip of a Baguette on the Way Home 🥖
Food is never eaten while walking in France—except for the tip of a fresh baguette. It’s almost a tradition to nibble on it before you even get home!
9️⃣ Pillowcases Are Square 🛏️
French pillows are square, not rectangular like in many other countries. It’s a small detail, but it often surprises expats when they first move!
🔟 Banks Don’t Always Have Cash 🏦
Unlike in many places where banks have cash on hand, some French banks require you to order cash in advance if you need a large withdrawal.
Final Thoughts
France is full of unique customs, and while some might seem unusual at first, they make life here charming and culturally rich. Have you noticed any other quirky habits since moving to France? 😊
